It’s Over

Filed under It's a Date, Lovelots, Yiddi Yadda with 283 words on Sep 13, 2009

People who are in my facebook probably heard the news about me and my boyfriend (now ex boyfriend) of four years break up. He was the one to end it and I recently found out he is crazy about another girl. So there, the long chapter of our love story has finally ended and another chapter is just beginning. Yes, darlings, I am dating. Don’t expect me to cry and mope about it. I am not really one who gets depressed over trivial things. He loves another, why should I mourn about it? Honesty, I’m okay with it. I was able to accept the fact after a few days. Of course, it’s thanks to all my friends and everyone who gave their support during that process. I am really grateful for their effort of cheering me up.

Last night, I had my first date with another guy after a very looooong time. LOL. I have been in a relationship for so long I almost forgot how it feels to be single. This time, I want to enjoy my youth and all the attention. LOL. No more serious relationships for now. I’m taking a break. BUT… BUT… I have this tendency to easily fall in love. GRRRRRR. Nooooooo!! I wish I don’t, but of course I’m not closing my doors for opportunities.

I’ll be posting the complete story of this on my other blog. It’s still under construction but I’ll post the link once it’s up. :)

PS: I’m on a no-rice diet right now and it is very effective. I lost 6 lbs in just a week. 6 more pounds and I’m good to go. But if I can lose more than that, why not? =) Yeay! <3

  1. Candy Blush Beauty Blog September 15, 2009, 12:55 pm

    Aww.. gosh. 4 years.. now that is sad :( I don’t even know If I can deal with that If I wear you.. I’m really vulnerable.. most of the time :(   

  2. Honeul September 15, 2009, 1:37 pm

    I didn’t see this coming, girl. I remember some post about your ex before. How sad, really. But I’m glad you’re over him already. :) go girl  

  3. Jeniffer September 16, 2009, 8:35 am

    Walang sayang na 4 years kung di naman na nagwo2rk out. Nakakapanghinayang lang yun kc wala tayong nagawa na patagalin pa yung relationship. Pero your very strong woman, unlike others na nagmumukmok jan, you are now moving on and dating. Enjoy mo muna maging single! Masaya promise!

    Reply:
    oh yah yun nga yung content nung article na pag nag diet, lose weight ka daw sasabay ang boobs mo. Pero kung hndi daw sumabay sa pagpayat mo yung boobs,ibig sabihin natural lang daw na ganun na ung b0obs..  

  4. shugah September 16, 2009, 8:59 am

    its good to know youre over him now.
    thats really ahmazing of you. cos most of the people tend to be so biiiiiitter for months or weeks. ohw! even i too. :p lol
    but yeah gooodluck. what goes around comes around :)

    tc girlfriend.. <3  

  5. Filipino Food September 16, 2009, 9:26 am

    Hey fia. You’ll be okay. Madami pang iba diyan.  

  6. POSHQUEEN September 16, 2009, 2:58 pm

    you have a point.. why cry the whole night diba? and good girl! sige date lang ng date!!!! wohoo..  

  7. pam September 16, 2009, 6:44 pm

    good job. :) kung iba yan, siguro it will take time for them to move on but that’s the spirit. :D that’s how you take it. hehe. :D   

  8. Mhaye September 17, 2009, 8:46 pm

    aww that’s soo sad. grabe galing mo para magmove on agad. bilib akosau. tas date agad. galing. hehe. masaya maging single super. kaya inejoy mu na. haha.  

  9. Claudine September 17, 2009, 9:53 pm

    That’s sad, but it’s great that you were able to handle it that way. If that happened to another girl, maybe they’re crying over it right now. That’s the spirit! I like that. I wish I can be strong like you when I grow up :D   

  10. Shiri September 18, 2009, 4:48 am

    I’m sorry to hear about your long time relationship.. but I am happy you are not bawling your eyes out but checking out the other fishes in the sea ;)  

  11. krisel September 18, 2009, 10:28 am

    hi fia! your such a brave gal! if that happens to me for sure it would take me a months or two before I can get over it! I wish I can be strong just like you!

    good luck on dating! miss doing that too..hihihi  

  12. jogz September 19, 2009, 8:09 am

    wow at least nakamove on ka agad dun ate fia.. sus, tma ka you should not cry because of that kasi it’s his loss not yours.. go ate fia.. sana jan sa bago mong dinedate mahanap mo ang true love hahahaha  

  13. Gel September 19, 2009, 7:38 pm

    I didn’t know that you guys broke up.. 4 years is 4 years, oh wow. But good to know you got over it pretty fast. Hope everything’s well with you and good luck in dating other guys! ;)  

  14. Keiyt September 19, 2009, 11:52 pm

    I’m glad that you’re fine and strong unlike other girls after break up. Yay! Plus, I’m glad pala that you’re dating again.

    Good luck with your love life, Ate Fia! :)   

  15. Aimee September 20, 2009, 3:20 am

    4 years? oh well.. he wasted it first… go girl.. screw him! hahaha…

    good thing you got over him pretty fast.. he doesn’t deserve a single tear… you’re a strong woman :) )  

  16. gail September 20, 2009, 12:02 pm

    well, it’s now your lost. :(
    that’s okay ate, being single is fun! =) Enjoy life. mwaa!  

  17. Karen September 20, 2009, 11:02 pm

    Wow. Yan dapat ang attitude! =]
    Yeah, enjoy mo muna ang single life.. Date doon, Date dito. =]] Enjoy it!

    No rice diet, try ko nga din yan. I super want to lose weight talaga. Hayy nako naman. Takaw ko kasi eh.  

  18. Jack September 21, 2009, 12:40 am

    I’m so sorry to hear the news. I’m sure it’ll get easier soon.  

  19. Nelou September 21, 2009, 10:15 am

    Aw, BOYS. Sayang, 4years? Oh gosh. Anyway, it’s a good thing na nakakamove on ka, right. Goodluck & madami pa dyan. Nakakarelate ako masyado sa post mo sis. :) ))))))  

  20. Ems September 22, 2009, 3:57 pm

    Do you know that DIET is DIE with a T? Hehehehe… just kidding..

    Well just make sure you get enough nutrients in your body :)   

  21. Christel September 24, 2009, 8:41 pm

    sad to hear that. but it’s good that you’re doing fine at ang bilis mo naman makaget over infairness. hay, i really don’t get why those things happen.. like may bf ka then magkakagusto pa sila iba. what do they really ask for pffft. o well. good luck with your another chapter of your “love” life. :)   

  22. Luna September 25, 2009, 12:51 pm

    Right! If he left you, then so be it. Life is too awesome at hindi dapat sayangin. I am happy you have moved on. Congrats and good luck with the new chapter of your life. :)   

  23. Gracie September 27, 2009, 8:47 am

    Way to go girl!
    Don’t let your ex-boyfriend stop you from being happy and continue life.

    You deserve a much better guy who will love you more than you love him and a kind of guy that will not go crazy to another girl but only go crazy for you.

    Good luck on dating and enjoy being single!  

  24. Kimeh September 29, 2009, 5:25 pm

    It’s his loss. Grabe. I hate people na-nangangaliwa. Sana tamaan na sila ng kidlat.  

  25. Pocci October 15, 2009, 4:12 pm

    Its good that you got over your break up easily, one of my friends went pretty sad over I think 2-3 months of dating her ex.

    Good luck with dating this guy :D Hopefully it works out  

  26. Chiui October 21, 2009, 12:46 am

    I’m totally on your side with this! Leave them if they leave you for another girl and yes. that diet will help you gain more confidence. :)   

  27. MIMING October 23, 2009, 2:56 pm

    oh my.. break na kayo sis? pero at least your not mourning over his lost now. hahaha.. that’s a very good thing to hear na your finally dating a new guy. hahaha.. sge lang sis.. enjoy lng.. wag sayangin ang beauty! nyahahahaha.. ;)

    btw, salamat talaga ng marami sa paghost saakin sis… natapos ko na din ang http://missmaldita.co.cc ko.. weeeeeeee.. sana mabisita mo din siya sis.. heheheh..:D

    take care
    xoxo, MIMING  

  28. Kendra October 25, 2009, 8:36 am

    Aww, I am so sorry about your boyfriend. It’s great that you’re not dwelling on it though. Moving on is always a good thing.

    I had the same experience recently. I broke up with my boyfriend and then when I started dating again I was like “I don’t remember how to flirt, or what to do”. LOL. I was SO awkward. I sometimes wish I had stayed single for awhile longer than I did because I kind of jumped back into another relationship but, I’m happy.

    Hahaha that’s funny that you lost all that weight from not eating rice. I have no idea why, but it really is. :D   

  29. Yesha October 25, 2009, 4:29 pm

    aww so sad 4 yrs but its ok,youre too young pa just enjoy sweetie :)

    stay pretty and love yourself

    muaahhhh  

  30. aencille October 27, 2009, 1:51 am

    I seriously envy you. :( I also went thru the same thing as you 4 months ago and I’m still not 100% over it, even though it’s almost a 3 year relationship.

    Anywhooo.. I’m glad things are looking brightly for you! :D DD  

  31. Sandra October 29, 2009, 2:30 pm

    wow, i must salute you for moving on that fast! :) being single is fun. have fun while you have the opportunity sis! and oh, make kwentos! SHARE HA? hahaha. naku, don’t worry, fishes are out there in the big sea. :p miss you!  

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